Tuesday, September 17, 2013

Guest post by Sascha Illyich

Today, I've offered up my spot to a special guest, author Sascha Illyvich, one of the rare men who openly write erotic romance! Please join me in thanking Sascha for being here. :)

Sexual Fantasy in Romance

I'm hanging out today with the Naughty Author Chicks blog in place of Cindy Spencer Pape, taking up her sexy space so we can talk romantic fantasy.  In other words, dirty sexy fun!

The myriad of things that turn a person on is an endless list and one romance explores through ménage and bdsm books.  I've got several of those and plenty of experience in…well I'm going to leave you to wonder.

One of my favorite sexiest fantasies though, is based on a real experience.  Yes I'm here going to dish out some fun facts about yours truly.  The playground scene in my Decadent book The Playground is actually based on an event that happened a long time ago.  This woman I was with wanted something kinky and it was late at night.  The closest thing to giving us cover involved…yup, you guessed it. An abandoned playground in a developing part of the neighborhood. Odd, that fantasy came back to me via another heart mate recently…only where we grew up.

Now said woman and I weren't re-establishing a relationship, we'd just met.  The image it brought to mind when I put the scene in a park with Devon and Shelly evoked images of that hot night, sweaty skin and cries of passion.  Come to think of it, I can still see the memory in my head but as to who the lover was based on, I'll never tell.

Being a Lifestyle author, I can and have granted many a play partner's non-sexual fantasy and give them an experience they'll never forget.  Hopefully one that makes them want to buy more of my books LOL!

How often do you think writers insert their realities into the fantasy part of sex scenes?

Check out Sascha's book, The Playground at:


Dalton Diaz said...

Meet me in the playground and I'll tell you. ;)

Cindy Spencer Pape said...

Sascha, thanks so much for visiting today!

Sherry said...
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Sherry said...

I'm gonna need a much better GPS to find anyone's playground, my GPS gets lost all the time. .

Phew, (fanning myself) very hot, Sasha!

Sherry said...

I'm gonna need a much better GPS to find anyone's playground, my GPS gets lost all the time. .

Phew, (fanning myself) very hot, Sasha!

Sascha Illyvich said...

Dalton, can do ;)

Cindy, thank you for the spot!

Sherry...just follow your libido. It won't steer you wrong...I promise

Ashlyn Chase said...

Hey, Sascha! (waves wildly)
How've you been? Busy from the sounds of it. (wink)

I hope sales are hot and heavy. Great to see you here!

Sascha Illyvich said...

Ashlyn Chase, thanks :) I'm hoping I sell like a BEAST with all the new material coming out!

Marianne Stephens said...

Is that playground still available??
When asked if I base my sex scenes on experience, I always say, "Some...but I'll never tell which ones."
Good luck with your writing!

Melissa Keir said...

I loved The Playground. I think it's the idea of the swings that does it for me! Thanks for sharing your thoughts!

Sascha Illyvich said...


Yes that playground still is available as is the book...but the real thing...*wicked grins*

Melissa, thank you for your praise and support!

JoAnne Kenrick said...

Love your playground, Sascha. No one does the heat quite like you. Anyone in the dark about your work are sure missing something.

Sascha Illyvich said...

Thank you JoAnne :) I'm hoping to show the world a LOT more in the coming months!

Louisa Bacio said...

Oooh, thanks for a glimpse into your playground! I think authors share fantasies and some real life quite often.