by Jina Bacarr
New Year's Eve is all about champagne and sparkle. And you and your man. Whether you're celebrating in a fancy restaurant in red sequins and high heels or at home in comfy sweats and slippers, in this special New Year's post, we'll talk about finding your inner Geisha with tips on how to use it to turn on your man tonight and every night…
Geisha. Seductive, mystical creatures wrapped in yards and yards of tight silk, their voices soft and charming, their elegant manners quiet and reserved, yet their mystical allure can break a man's heart.
And turn him on.
How do they do it?
Geisha are skilled in the arts and that includes the art of understanding men. These divine seductresses are not purveyors of the sex trade, but their job of entertaining men includes arousing his most sensual erogenous zone: his brain.
In my upcoming Spice novel, "The Blonde Samurai," (Feb. 2010) the heroine discovers the allure of the geisha in the pleasure quarters: "Two maids removed his clothes while the courtesan changed her kimono and called for a young geisha to play the samisen. Simouyé. I recall her with great clarity because of her sophistication for one so young, her back straight, her bearing elegant and refined. Shintaro smiled at her and a twinge of jealousy coursed through me as if he knew her intimately…"
Here are my 5 Tips to finding your inner geisha to turn on your man:
1.) The nape of the geisha's neck painted white with two serpent's tongues left unpainted hints at her genitalia, arousing a man. Wear a push-up bra with cut-outs under a tight-fitting sweater to turn him on.
2.) The Japanese love hot baths, including the geisha. Make a soapland paradise for your man. Grab your jasmine-scented soap then do a "lather dance" for him in the shower, soaping him up then using your body as the washcloth until he's ready for action.
3.) Geisha know how important scent is to creating a mood. Her fragrance is as personal as the stroke of her brush doing calligraphy. Don’t try a myriad of different perfumes with your man. Find the most provocative one or two, make them your only perfumes, and you, or at least the memory of you, will linger in his mind forever.
4.) Geisha are known for their witty, sexy repartee. Give your man an earful as well as an eyeful with playful phone sex. Talk sexy to him on your cell phones while he watches you and tells you what he wants you to do next.
5.) A pretty geisha opens a wicker basket containing steaming hot washcloths, her dark eyes misty with dewy droplets. Smiling, she serves her guest chilled saké then offers him a hot washcloth, oshibori, to soothe away his daily travails. Relax your man with a hot cloth and his favorite chilled brew after a hard day at the office.
Don't be shy about discovering your Inner Geisha. Your man will love you for it.
Happy New Year!! And have a great 2010!!
Coming next week: A Naughty Victorian Lady reflects on the Way of the Samurai and Ireland